i was shocked 2 c a news in today's prothom alo page no. 4.in ishwardi a 7 years old girl is dead because of being gangraped by some busturds.when i was a school girl i used 2 b stired by this kinda newses.i was so sensitive. d incident wandared across my mind all d day, heart used 2 beat so quickly , i couldn't study attentively and used 2 cry secretly 2 my 1 and only dearest GOD.by GOD'S mercy now i'm imotionally balanced than b4. but still i become very shocked. since i've gained d ability 2 b a mother i've always dreamt of a baby gul.justtttttt like me. with dark brown eyes, curly hair and a heart and brain far better than me. she'll overcome all d deficiancies those i have.i'll teach her 2 b brave , and respectfull 2 herself &all.i've alreaddy given her a name uno?it's JODHY.means struggler /Conqueror.when i get tired i lay down on my bed , take my dolls on my lap and think of her. i'm thrilled wid a glorious feeling.but when i read tihs sort of news i wonder "won't i committ a sin by giving her birth 2 such a world full of beasts and devils"?will i b able 2 guarantee her safety &well being?"whatever i'm still can't give up dreaming of u my little angel.i love u.
2day i went 2 a jewelery shop 2 buy a gift 4 my cousin. a couple stood beside me. they will get married soon. i guessed d gul has been abroad 4 a long time from her accent.the boy asked d gul 2 choose a ring but d gul told him 2 choose 1 for her.i was enjoying their gigglings and talkies.then from other corner of d shop 3 women joined them .they were also wid d couple.an old woman asked d boy-"has she chosen a ring"?'yes ' he replied."and nose pin"?-the woman asked again. then the gul said-"oh no. i haven't pierced my nose".then another woman wid them(may b d boys sister.she didn't were nosepin) said d gul in acccent of an order-"no no no u have 2 do it."d gul sounded scared dis time-"oh no. i can't . it seems so painful, i did once but it's closed"then d women said again-"no. u have 2 do it. u can go 2 a parlour". d gul asked surprisedly_"is it traditional?"'yes"-all d women replied.
i pierced my nose just 2 enhance my style when i was in bsc 1st year.it wasn't so painful.but still i think no 1 should b forced 2 do something like dis .in some families nosepin is accepted as d sign of being married.some women wears it thinking that it will keep her husband from every kind of dangers .if a woman is forced 2 bear pains 4 d safety of her husband. why should man lag behind?why don't they also pierce their tongues or eyebrows and wear a ring 4 d safety of their wives?could any1 plz tell me?
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