Friday, July 10, 2009

whom will u blame?

“Are girls mean minded by born or the environment makes them mean?”- a few months back this was the fb status message of pinky apu from BUET. Many of her friends expressed their opinion on their comments and tonight this question is burning in my mind once again.If u follow the issue of 16.2.2009 of‘ the daily prothom alo ‘ u’ll find a news which says a 5 years old boy was burnt and dead.the baby boy gave his statement to the TV channels saying that he was burnt by his stepmother.The wretched boy lost her mother 3 years back and his father got remarried. according to the maid servant, Because of being a bit aggressive the boy used to be always humiliated by her stepmom.and here the question arises-Did his stepmom used to humiliate him because he was aggressive or he was aggressive because he was deprived of love and affection he needed?Even in the night before his accident or attempt of killing, His stepmother forced to have his meal sitting on the cold, hard floor instead of dinning table and chair.none other than his father said this to the press.May be he’s happy now with his beloved mom . I believe that Allah will keep his soul in peace who got nothing in such a short life.But this death leaves a lot of questions in our minds.in a male dominated society like ours we have a lot of complaints against the males of being dominating, cruel, inhuman, sex maniac and so on.but where will we go if we, the women keep on setting up such examples ?
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